A Life Beyond ‘Do What You Love’

This editorial by Gordon Marino originally appeared on The New York Times Opinionator on 5/17/14. Authors and writers often struggle with the choice between quitting their day jobs to follow their passion fulltime, and maintaining a toehold on financial stability. This piece speaks to the practical limitations and societal downsides of pursuing one’s passion to the exclusion of all else.

Student advisees often come to my office, rubbing their hands together, furrowing their brows and asking me to walk along with them as they ponder life after graduation. Just the other day, a sophomore made an appointment because he was worrying about whether he should become a doctor or a philosophy professor. A few minutes later, he nervously confessed that he had also thought of giving stand-up comedy a whirl.

As an occupational counselor, my kneejerk reaction has always been, “What are you most passionate about?” Sometimes I‘d even go into a sermonette about how it is important to distinguish between what we think we are supposed to love and what we really love.

But is “do what you love” wisdom or malarkey?

In a much discussed article in Jacobin magazine early this year, the writer Miya Tokumitsu argued that the “do what you love” ethos so ubiquitous in our culture is in fact elitist because it degrades work that is not done from love. It also ignores the idea that work itself possesses an inherent value, and most importantly, severs the traditional connection between work, talent and duty.

 

Click here to read the full editorial on The New York Times Opinionator.

 

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